
You all know I love my little mantras and lessons from everyday life. But if you’ve followed me long enough, you also know there’s one thing that consistently saves me when life feels too heavy: travel.
Hi my beautiful community,

Yes, I said it. Travel is more than just a luxury or a way to post pretty pictures on Instagram. For me, travel is therapy. It’s how I pause, breathe, and reset my entire being mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually.
And today, I want to take you deeper into this idea. Because I believe every woman whether you’re a mom juggling three schedules, a career woman breaking glass ceilings, or a woman trying to discover her purpose deserves to know that travel can be the therapy you didn’t even know you needed.
So grab your tea (or wine, I won’t judge), and let’s dive into how travel has become my secret form of self-care, my way to recharge, and why it might be exactly what you need too.
When life gets overwhelming, people usually turn to traditional forms of therapy. Counseling, journaling, meditation. Don’t get me wrong, all those things are powerful and I practice them too.
But travel therapy does something unique:
I don’t just want this to sound poetic but there are research behind why traveltherapy. Studies show that traveling reduces stress, improves creativity, boosts happiness, and even strengthens relationships.
Here’s why:
So when I say travel therapy, it’s not just my personal mantra. It’s backed by science.
Let me share a little story with you.
A few years ago, I hit a wall. I was running on empty, between career responsibilities, family commitments, and the constant pressure of “having it all together.” I remember one night, staring at my laptop at 2 AM, thinking: I can’t keep doing this.
That weekend, I booked a spontaneous trip to Cape Town. I didn’t plan it. I didn’t overthink it. I just went.
Friends, that trip changed me.
It wasn’t the fancy hotel or the sightseeing. It was the space to breathe. Walking along the V&A Waterfront, climbing Table Mountain, sipping rooibos tea at sunrise. It was like my soul was unclogging. This travel therapy is what i will recommend every time
I came back lighter, clearer, and surprisingly more productive. That was the moment I realized: travel isn’t an escape. It’s a reset.
Okay, so how does this play out in my actual life? I’ll break it down for you:
I treat travel therapy the same way I treat important meetings. I don’t wait until I’m burnt out. I plan short getaways or even local retreats every few months.
Not every “therapeutic” trip has to be Bali or Paris. Sometimes it’s a 2-day spa retreat in Lagos, or a road trip with friends. The point is: new environment, fresh perspective.
When I travel, I set an intention. Maybe it’s “rest,” maybe it’s “clarity,” or maybe it’s “joy.” That way, I don’t just come back with souvenirs, I come back with alignment.
Let’s clear something up. When I say “travel therapy,” some people picture five-star resorts and business-class flights. And while I love luxury (you know me), the therapy part doesn’t depend on that.
It’s not about how expensive or Instagrammable it is. It’s about giving yourself permission to step out of your routine.
You know I can’t talk about travel therapy without giving you some inspo, right? Here are some of my favorite “therapy” destinations:
Because I know many of you are thinking: Abby, I don’t have the time. I hear you. Here are quick hacks you can use even with your busy schedule to see travel therapy in a helpful manner:
If there’s one lesson travel-as-therapy has taught me, it’s this:
Balance doesn’t always come from sitting still. Sometimes balance comes from movement, from stepping into a new environment and letting it reframe how you see your life.
Travel Therapy reminds me that I am more than my to-do list. It whispers, You are allowed to pause. You are allowed to live.
And every time I come home, I don’t just bring back pictures. I bring back a more aligned version of myself.
Ladies, if you take one thing from this, let it be this: you don’t need permission to travel for your well-being.
You don’t have to wait until you’re on the edge of burnout. You don’t have to justify it as “a luxury.”
Travel is self-care. Travel is therapy. Travel is your reset button.
And trust me, the woman who comes back from that trip will be more present, more powerful, and more joyful — for herself, her family, and her dreams.
So tell me in the comments: Where’s the next place you’d love to go for your “travel therapy”? Let’s inspire each other.
Until next time, remember: You deserve rest, you deserve beauty, and you deserve to recharge. No apologies. Join our community to get more travel therapy tips.
With love always,
Abby







Awodola Olajumoke
Awakening!!!